The liturgy for an Anglican church funeral service dictates that certain actions and practices of group worship will take place. These might include:
Readings and sermons
Passages are read from the Bible which reflect the mood and thoughts of those in attendance at the funeral. Of course, it might be that the deceased had a particularly favoured passage or set of passages from the Bible that they kept in their mind or strove to live their life by. In which case, the family might ask that these are the passages read out, or that the reading is followed by a favourite hymn of theirs.
The minister will typically give a sermon after the readings and hymns, which can be a welcome stretch of time to slow down, hear encouraging words, and receive guidance in your own faith through a difficult time.
Prayers
Prayer is such an important part of faith; it’s often the only way mourners can impart their best wishes for the soul of the deceased and to give thanks for the life they had.
As such, an Anglican funeral leaves plenty of room for prayers, for both the benefit of the deceased and those who have gathered to mourn.
Holy Communion
A highly recognisable and significant part of Christian worship, mourners may be invited up to partake in communion. This will involve taking a sip of wine and a morsel of bread or communion wafer, signifying the blood and body of Christ, respectively.
Commendation/Farewell
These are the final prayers and farewells given to the deceased before they are entrusted to God in an official manner led by the minister. This moment will often come with a period of silence to reflect, and mourners may wish to gather around the coffin.
Committal
This encompasses the final minutes of the funeral service. It may involve lowering the coffin into the grave for burial, or moving the coffin out of sight in the case of cremation. For many, this can be incredibly difficult.
Though the commendation is the official farewell to the deceased as they move into the afterlife, the committal represents the last time that the mourners will see the deceased in any physical form. It can often feel like the true final goodbye, and it is often the hardest part.